biggins wrote:Sorry you are under pressure from your neighbour to go for a walk with you Diane. Does she go for long strenuous walks on her own? She may think it is a walk where she can just walk quickly and chat as you go along stopping when she wants to.
Perhaps the only option left is to tell her it is 4 miles at a very quick pace and tell her the route as she may not realise just how far 4 miles is.
If she then still insists she can do it then go with her and keep up a very quick pace the whole route without talking to her (explain talking slows you down). If she can't keep up and doesn't manage it then you are out of it for the future as she will not ask again. If she suceeds then at least you know it will not slow you down and you could invite her ocassionally but make the most of the early mornings when she can't go.
No weight lost this weekbut no weight gain either so suppose that's okay. Probably becoming too complacent and expecting to lose a lb a week now without trying so hard as I did at the start.
Next week I have several meals out so doesn't bode well for losing weight. If friends are cooking for myself and others don't want to say I am trying to lose weight as it then becomes the topic of conversation everytime anyone meets see you. You feel guilty if you haven't lost a ton of weight by the next time you meet them.Better if they meet you and say "Have you lost weight since I last saw you?
I agree with you, biggins, re telling people you're trying to lose weight!! Sorry you didn't lose anything this week, but at least you haven't gained. In case you're worried for next week, allow for the meals out by being as good as you can at home!!




